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I have a confession to make. Do not be surprised or shock nor disbelief. It's true. I .... judge a person by his/her face as first impression. *Gasp*

Ok, I guess there's no need to over-react or make it such a big issue. It's just a little bad habit of mine. Well, who doesn't has bad habits?

Anyway, what I want to post here is that I realized recently I should really quit this habit because almost all my first impression on people really deviates from their true personalities. In the past, I had always make judgements on people based on their looks before I actually know them. For example, when I see a person with a cool ( cool as in ice cold ) face, I usually won't approach him/her and talk to that particular person because I'm afraid of being treated coldly and I'm not really an easy-talking person, if you know what I mean. So, it was kind of hard to make new friends back then.

But ever since I transfer in to High School Klang from Sekolah Tengku Ampuan Rahimah for my form 6 education, with a new environment and a whole new community, things began to change. I needed friends, which means adapting to the whole new culture of schools which were once aliens to me and learn to mix with a whole new bunch of people. I didn't have a choice. I was desperate for friends. Lol. How can Homo sapiens live without friends ?

So with my old bad habit, instantly, I started making personal judgements on people around me. Some were positive ones while a few were..not so positive ones. But then, I started mixing with all these new people and occasionally, I'm fortunate enough to see the true sides of them. ( Well, I'm not giving names here as to avoid any possible misunderstandings from friends that actually read my blog. Hee hee )

Anyway, It turns out that some of them were not like what I thought they were. By the way, when I say judgements, I do not just mean judgements on their attitude, but also on their academic. Ya, I know, it's a bad bad habit. Anyway, some of them revealed their true evil tails while some improvises my opinions on them. For example, many cool or quiet looking people turns out to be rather emo and also friendly at times. However, there were also friendly looking people that turns out rather cocky and arrogant. But then, you see, I must admit that some of my judgements are really wrong but there were also judgements where I really come close to their true personality. Nevertheless, it's still a bad habit.

In conclusion, I guess its really time for me to stop judging one person's personality based on their looks. Besides, who am I to judge another human ? Well, I'm glad I'm starting to let go of this habit and making more friends than I've ever made before. I hope nobody gets offended by this post, ya? It's just a tiny confession of mine and by posting it I'm trying to show my determination to get rid of it. I would also like to wish all my new friends made in High School Klang "Friends Forever", quoted from Kerry Seow from 6B2. Lol.

Very true indeed...

Choppy,
-Regretful-
-Determined-